A couple of months ago, I shared a secret that I had been holding onto for nearly two years – a secret set visit to the LIFE OF THE PARTY movie, featuring Melissa McCarthy, which releases TODAY in theaters!
ABOUT THE MOVIE
This Mother’s Day weekend, Melissa McCarthy is the Life of the Party.
Melissa McCarthy stars as an old-school mom who creates a whole new life in LIFE OF THE PARTY – a hilarious comedy no mom should miss – in theaters just in time for Mother’s Day!
When her husband suddenly dumps her, longtime dedicated housewife Deanna (McCarthy) turns regret into re-set by going back to college…landing in the same class and school as her daughter, who’s not entirely sold on the idea. Plunging headlong into the campus experience, the increasingly outspoken Deanna-now Dee Rock-embraces freedom, fun and frat boys on her own terms, finding her true self in a senior year no one ever expected.
Well, fast forward to April 30th, 2018, and I was on the red carpet for the LIFE OF THE PARTY movie premiere in Auburn, Alabama!
The fabulous team at Big Honcho, got us all glammed up with hair and makeup for the event, too!
Oh, and what did I wear? A jumpsuit, of course.
Though, not as fabulous as the one Melissa wears in the movie.
MY THOUGHTS OF THE MOVIE
There was so much that I loved about LIFE OF THE PARTY. I’ve always been a big fan of Melissa McCarthy’s comedy, and this film was no different in the number of times I belly-laughed and nearly fell out of my seat from pure joy.
What makes this movie different than Melissa’s past films is the relatability I had to her as a mom, specifically her determination to follow her dreams and passions. The film confirms that no age is too old to meet our goals, even as a mom.
I’ll never forget the question I asked her during my set visit a couple years ago, which relates to this very topic.
“Can you talk about the inspiration behind this film?”
Melissa McCarthy: Yes. We–like I said before, Ben really had the initial idea of going back to school. He grew up in a college town and he has just a real sweet spot for kind of universities in general. And I really got stuck on kind of the concept of–I feel like three or four times within a two-week span, I’ve kind of heard somebody go, we’re not really going out to dinner people. Or we’re really not movie people. Or we’re not really–and I thought these are people my age. And I was, like, you can’t say that. You’re not 105 years old. Stop saying that stuff.
And then it made me start thinking, like, do I say that? Do I say, like, I’m not really this? And I got kind of very obsessed with the concept of kind of deciding you’re done. Kind of it’s finding out who you are or what you like or anything. It’s just too early. And I thought we could all live to 100 years old. Like, at 70, you could move to, like, Portugal and be, like, I grow beans. Who saw that coming?
So, it’s, like, to say, like, you know, 42 or any age, really, that you’re done is, like–you just shouldn’t do that. And it’s–we kind of just talking about it. We’re, like, let’s never do that. Even though we do go to bed at 8:00, we’re not going to say–like, let’s have the hope that, like, we don’t know what we’re going to do–I mean, it’s like you always have somebody in your life that it–or somebody that you know through somebody that, like, they suddenly, like, did something that you can’t even get your head wrapped around. I thought we should at least keep the possibility.
So, be, like, I’ll never go back to school or this is all over. Or if I didn’t do it at 20, I can’t do it now. And that kind of spun us into this whole thing of, like, you can redefine yourself.
And I think especially as a woman, it fascinates me that we kind of are immediately sometimes categorized that, you know, once you’re out of your 20s, you’re done with this and then you’re done. And I just kind of reject that.
And when you’re a mom, it’s, I guess, supposed to all go. No. I mean, my kids are everything, but I always think, like, I can, you know–my mom was a working mom. It’s funny. She worked my whole life, but I never–like, when I first had kids, I always thought, you know, there’s so much guilt now in both my mom and Ben’s mom because they’re both the sweetest women on earth.
Which are not–this is not the kind of thing they usually said, but they’re both, like, what’s with the guilt? They’re, like, we worked. You work. What is–and I was, like, I just feel like I should be home all the time and I struggle with that. My mom’s, like, I wasn’t home. I was, like, well, you were home most of the time. She’s, like, I worked every day. You went to the neighbors, you did this. And I was, like, I feel like you were home.
But, yes, they think all our modern guilt is crazy. These are very, like, reasonable women who are, that’s an element that’s not so much in that age range. It just won’t. She’s, like, we had to work. We needed money. Why would I feel guilty about that?
I think that really spun us a lot into this. And just kind of redefining yourself without deserting who you are, but to be, like, I can kind of grow and change myself and kind of get a second–second chances are always very interesting to me.
Need I say more about Melissa’s heart in this matter?
Not only will you laugh hysterically when you watch LIFE OF THE PARTY, but you will be inspired to lift up your hands and grab the stars.